The 5 Things You Need To Get The Girl You Want

It’s a guy’s dream; getting the girl he wants every time. OK, every time is perhaps too strong a claim, but how about most of the time? Does that sound reasonable? It can happen to you, even if you’ve been let down every single time you ever built up the courage to even speak to a girl other than your mother, your grandmother your aunt or your sister. Yes, it really can.

It’s all about psychology. No, don’t turn off thinking this is all high falutin stuff. It isn’t. We are talking about basic psychology that anyone can master and understand. Most guys think girls go for good looks, a flashy car and lots of cash with a guy. They do not. A girl may well think she does, but her psychology thinks differently. She reacts to basic psychology that is as old as Adam and Eve, and may even be older. There are certain traits that a man can have that will turn almost any girl on, even if he has a face that looks like the south end of a north facing ewe. Trust me on this.

1. Confidence is probably the most important of the five important traits that a guy needs to get his girl. How many girls do you think will react positively to a guy who looks nervous and scared of the girl? Not many. But if a guy knows what he wants in a Tom Cruise kind of way with a cool, positive and confident manner, she will be much more impressed. It’s that, “I know what I want and watch me get it” kind of confidence. It isn’t flashy, just cool and positive.

2. Being positive is the next trait that a guy needs. The guy who worries if he looks acceptable, or if he can pull it off, or if he should have changed his socks, will struggle to get the girl – every time. The guy who is positive and who knows what he is going to get is the one who gets it.

3. Have a purpose in life. Let the girl know that you are not letting life happen to you; you are happening to life. That’s one she will not have heard before and it will impress her. Let her know that you have a plan in life. She will want to be part of it if you impress her enough. She will love the idea of a guy who knows where he is going and how he is going to get there.

4. Be a leader. Girls like their guys to take control. They don’t like a guy to be controlling all the time, just to be in control and to take control at the right times. There’s a big difference. They don’t like guys who can’t make up their minds about important issues and who waver about this and that. The guy who can lead and lead well is a winner with the girls.

5. Be with the girl you are with. Girls love to be flattered. They love their guy to be warm and interested in them. The guy who can place his full attention on the girl he is with going to have a happy girl. Listen to her and make her talk about herself, about her likes and dislikes and about her dreams. Be the kind of guy who has all the other traits as well and you will get the girl you want.

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