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Is He Committed To The Relationship? 5 Ways To Know For Sure

June 18th, 2009, Posted by Eddy Ankrett

Girls often wonder about the guy they are with and if he is really committed to the relationship. It often seems that there’s not a real way to know for sure whether he is or not. That’s not so. There are plenty of ways to tell if your guy is ready and committed to your relationship, if this is the one, or if this is just another fling for him.

There’s nothing wrong with having a good time, and girls too might not be ready for commitment. But when you are you will want to know how to tell if he’s ready and willing to commit. Here are 5 ways to tell if he is committed to the relationship.

1. In any new relationship both partners want to be together as much as possible. It often gets boring for others who have to put up with it. The couple hang around together all the time and can’t seem to get enough of each other. This is perfectly normal. Everyone does it, and that’s where you can get a feeling of whether or not he’s ready. When you are apart, does he call you? A guy who is giving his all to a relationship will call the girl – a lot. If he doesn’t, ask yourself why.

2. Listen to him. Is his talk all frivolous and silly? There’s a time for that, but if that’s all there is then he’s probably not ready. A guy who is looking to commit to a relationship will be making plans for the future. It won’t take up all his time, but it will occupy some of it. He may be young now, but he knows that he will have to stand alone someday and he will probably have to provide for a family too. Is he talking like that? Even just a little?

3. Who does he introduce you to? Are the people he takes you to meet people who are very important in his life? If it’s just the guys he goes drinking and watching football with, then maybe he’s not thinking about commitment yet. But if he starts to introduce you to his close family members and serious friends, then that can be a very good sign.

4. Does he ask your opinion on serious matters. Does he treat you with respect and as an equal? If he does, that’s a good sign. He’s probably thinking that you are a very suitable partner for him and his future plans. In other words, he’s ready to commit.

5. Does he show some responsibility with his money? If he spends everything he has on a Saturday night out without a care, then maybe his attitude to finances are not what you need. He can’t commit properly if he’s throwing his hard earned money around on luxuries. Sure, there’s a time for fun, but it stops being funny when it goes too far.

If you are ready for a serious relationship, it’s important for you to know if he is as well. Look for these signs. They are a simple indicator of how things are. Of course, there are plenty of other signs to tell you how the land lies, but these 5 will be enough to give you a strong indication of how things are.

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