How to Reply to a Personal Ad

One of the main advantages of joining an online dating agency is the fact that you not only get to place your own personal ad, you can browse through the database and search for potential dates. In most cases, you’ll spend more time searching than waiting to be discovered. After all, you are paying for the service and you should take full advantage of your freedom to look for your mate.
 
Let’s say you have finally found her and you are ready to make contact, what now? One advice to always keep in mind is that you should always have the upper hand.

Before replying to her personal ad, study it first and get clues as to how you should reply. The most common move is to mirror her personal ad. This allows you to engage her without giving up too much about yourself. Also use the data in her ad as a basis for conversation. There are a lot of things being said between the lines and you need to have the ability to read them.
 
Should she reply, find a way to keep the correspondence flowing. Analyse reply in order to learn more about her. When writing your next message, make sure to reveal more about yourself to arouse her curiosity. Do not, however, reveal too much info because you would want to have more things to say the next time she replies. Always control the tempo of your correspondence. At the same time, try to find out more about her until you are comfortable enough to reveal further information about yourself.
 
Perhaps all this cat-and-mouse may lead you to think that this is a dangerous game to play. After all, love itself is not a game and the heart is not merely an object to meddle with. But the art of courtship is what you should consider a worthy game to play. With courtship, you are not playing with her heart. You are playing in order to win her heart. When you reply to her personal ad, you begin the game of courtship.
 
Keep in mind that you’re probably not alone in trying to woo her. There will be others. That’s why you should learn how to reply to her personal ad correctly and play the game to win. Play it right. Your love life may very well depend on it.

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