How To Make Him Do What YOU Want, But Leave Him Thinking It Was His Idea

Guys are great most of the time, but sometimes they can be too slow to react in the way you would like them to. If you just come out and tell them what they should say or do it, won’t go down well at all. Guys want to be the ones in control, and lets face it, so do girls. We want our guy to be the strong one, but also to be the one who does the things we want to see happen. That works out best if he then thinks it was his idea all along!

Yes, it’s kinda sneaky, but look at it this way: you get what you want and he gets to think he’s being nice for you. It’s a total win-win situation all round. There’s no loser – just winners. He thinks he’s still the strong one, and he probably is in reality, but you know how to persuade him to do the things that please you while letting him feel good about it too.

So, how do you achieve this without reverting to hypnotism or voodoo? You’re a girl! That’s the most important point to remember. Use your femininity to the max, but without alienating him in any way. It’s easy when you know how.

There are differences between men and women and how they each view a relationship. Guys tend to be slower in getting fully involved while girls make a definite decision to commit much faster. For this reason you have to persuade him that he’s good for you, and more importantly, you are good for him, and you have to do this as soon as possible.

Guys hate it when their girls moan and complain all the time. You’ve heard the kind of thing said by other girls to their guys: “Why can’t you take me to that fancy restaurant?” “Why do we always go to that crummy pub?” “Why don’t we get a taxi home instead of walking for miles?” There’s a much better way! It’s called psychology.

Now, you don’t have to go to night classes to study psychology. You don’t need a degree in the subject. You just need to know how to get your own way while letting him think it was his idea. So, instead of whining something like, “Why can’t we go out tonight?” try saying, “What would you like to do tonight that we’ll both enjoy doing?” That forces him to come up with something other than watching the big match on TV; he has to come up with something that he doesn’t mind doing, but that you also like doing. Chances are he’ll take the easy route and suggest that you both go out on the town!

When you say things like, “Why can’t we…?” you are forcing him to come up with an answer, or more likely, an excuse. When you ask him what he’d like to do that won’t be something that you’d hate doing, and you can subtly shove him in the right direction at the same time, you are forcing him to think more along the lines of what you want. The added bonus is that he makes the decision and feels in control, while you get what you want. That’s happiness!

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