How To Be The Ideal Girl For Your Ideal Guy

It isn’t easy being the ideal girl for the ideal guy, but you can make it easier on yourself with just a little effort. Bear in mind also that the ideal guy in every way simply doesn’t exist. You can find guys that are pretty good or even great, but not perfect. However, they may well be ideal for you and that’s the point here.

Finding the ideal guy for you is really only half the battle. You have to also be the ideal girl for him. It may all work out just fine automatically, but are you willing to trust to chance? It’s much better to give fate a shove in the right direction and guide your own destiny towards the direction you want it to go in. With that in mind, here then are 5 top tips for how to be the ideal girl for your ideal guy.

1. Don’t intimidate the guy. Try to look more natural rather than heavily made up. A guy usually likes some make up, but will rarely like to see too much. He wants to know that you are human underneath it all, and not more akin to a china doll. Try to come over as smartly dressed and made up, but not overly so. Try to look approachable and warm, rather than being so picture-postcard perfect that he might be scared to touch you.

2. Be a friend from the start. Be chatty, but don’t dominate the conversations. Guys like it a lot when a girl talks naturally without being stilted in any way. You don’t have to discuss philosophy with him – in fact, don’t! Just use small talk, but nothing too silly and frivolous. Don’t be boring or suggestive. Just be friendly without going too far. Treat him as if you’ve known him all your life. He’ll love you for it as it will put him totally at ease and make him feel so good inside. Trust me on this!

3. Make him the centre of your attention. Guys don’t want girls to prattle on about their girl friends, or how life is at the office, or who is dating who or cheating on who. A guy wants to feel that he is the most important thing in your life. I know… but he’ll love you for it, and after all, if he’s really the ideal guy for you, he should be the most important thing in your life. Get him to talk about the things he likes. He won’t believe his luck that he’s finally found a girl who is interested in beer and football!

4. Be honest, sincere and trustworthy. These are traits that every person, girl or guy, should have, of course, and that’s because they are so very important. Your ideal guy has to know that he can trust you. He has to know that you are sincere, and he has to know that you are honest. It’s as simple as that.

5. Be your own woman. Don’t ever be a doormat to him, for then he will no longer be your ideal guy. You will get a lot more respect for being your own person. Don’t stand on ceremony and be totally feminist, or something similar. Just let him know that there’s a line that you will not cross. He’ll readily accept that if he really is your ideal guy.

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