A Beginner’s Guide To Girls Decoded

For the guy who is about to start dating, there are some rough and rocky roads ahead. That is not to say don’t do it, just to warn the unwary that girls are a very complex kind of animal – not that you should ever refer to them as animals, of course! All too often guys think something is the case when it’s not. The guy then scratches his head in puzzlement, wondering how he could have read the situation so wrong. This article does not claim to know everything about the mystery of girls, but here anyway is a beginner’s guide to girls decoded.

Most of the clues to what a girl really means lies in her body language. That doesn’t mean you now have a licence to stare at her body, pretending to be looking for clues. That will not go down well with any girl. Just notice certain little things and learn how to interpret them.

For example, a girl who sits with crossed legs and crossed arms is usually not a happy girl. She is crossing you out of the picture, in effect. And if she has her face turned away and won’t readily make eye contact, it’s probably best to forget about her. She is simply not interested in you, or at least, not interested in whatever you have just suggested.

That is a more obvious body language sign, but sometimes the signs are much more subtle and not easy to pick up on. Sometimes a girl says yes when she really means no. Look for excuses in this respect. She may be agreeing, but finding little excuses at the same time. If you continue to assure her and knock each excuse aside, you are not paying attention to the subtle signs of her really saying no.

Take a situation where your friends are all going out together, no girls allowed. It’s Saturday night and you usually go out with your girlfriend on Saturday evening. However, you are persuaded to tell her that this weekend is different. When you ask her if she minds that you go out with your friends and not with her, listen for a quiet voice that tentatively says something like, “OK – if you want to.”

If she qualifies it in any way (“if you want to”), it really means that she doesn’t want it to happen. If you hear that and go ahead anyway, asserting your masculine rights, whatever they may be, then don’t be surprised if she is a little cold towards you when you meet up again. In effect, you have told her that the guys are more important than her. She probably feels snubbed and a little hurt too. You need to be more sensitive in future!

Of course, if the girl is making good eye contact, leaning towards you – even touching you occasionally – and smiling too – then it’s a reasonable bet that you are doing everything right. She likes you! Or at least, she appears to like you, for body language is not an exact science, unfortunately.

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