5 Possible Reasons Why She Rejected You

It’s a young man’s most feared situation. Come to that, it’s the fear of men of any age – rejection by the girl they have worked up the courage to approach. Why does it happen? It could be for any number of reasons, some of them obvious and acceptable, and some of them not at all obvious and forever a mystery.

Rejection is hard to bear. It tends to happen to men more often than it happens to girls. This may be because men are more often the ones who approach the girl, but it may also be because girls can afford to be more choosy. They tend to have guys hitting on them regularly, while guys don’t tend to have girls hitting on them. If a guy wants a girl he usually has to work hard for it. Whatever the reasons, here are 5 possible reasons why she may have rejected you. Pre-warned is pre-armed, as they say…

1. She may simply be a not very nice person. All that silliness about girls being sugar and spice and all things nice is not really the case. Sure, there are plenty of nice female people out there, but there are plenty of not very nice ones too. If she turns up her nose at your attempts to be friendly you are really the lucky one because she rejected you.

2. She may be a nice enough person, but you simply caught her at a bad time. People of both sexes get out of sorts at times. It’s human nature. And when we feel down for whatever reason, we sometimes take it out on innocent bystanders. And if one of the bystanders is trying to be a romantic and using his best chat up line, it’s possible that he may be instantly rejected out of hand without an explanation. It’s life, it isn’t nice and all you can do is get over it.

3. She may have had a really bad experience with some guy in the past. Girls can start out sugar and spice and all things nice, but then sometimes men get in the way. If a man treats a girl really badly, for whatever reason, she is likely to carry that experience over to other possible relationships. If, when you approach her, something in you reminds her of the one who was mean to her, it’s possible that she may be mean to you in return. It isn’t personal, it’s just her natural reaction to a bad experience.

4. She simply doesn’t like what she sees or hears. This is what guys usually think is the reason, even if it’s not. They assume that something in them is the problem when they get rejected. It isn’t always the case, but of course it can be. If she takes one look at you and doesn’t like the way you dress, the way you speak, or the way you smile, then it’s goodbye before you meet. The only thing you can do is accept it and start again with someone else.

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